I thought about writing on this when a friend of mine posted on a video on Facebook about a guy who says that men should give their significant others (SOs) their cellphone passcodes. Embarrassingly enough, this topic is one of my anxiety triggers that took an interesting turn. Let me tell y’all a story. I’ve… Read More I Have His Cellphone Passcode
Good morning! I rose bright & early, having gone to bed at 10 last night during the black out. It’s been a while since I’ve felt compelled to rant & rave about something but as it’s on my mind right now I said I’d take up the opportunity (with work starting at 11 today). I… Read More Rant & Rave Thursday (an everything update)
Hey guys! Today’s that day where the world celebrates the love they have for their significant others, family & friends. I’m hoping this day finds you on high spirits whether you’re in a relationship or not. Don’t be discouraged if you’re not on the receiving end of fancy presents or grand gestures today. It’s really… Read More Happy Valentines Day From Lovexcess
[I’m no expert, these are just opinions/ideas] Most of what happens to us is a result of some action of our own doing, so as humans, it’s in our nature to expect or anticipate one thing or another happening in our lives. Sometimes we expect a lot… Often too much. And both good and bad things… Read More Rela. Talk #2: Expectations.
He came in like the summertime; much appreciated and deeply anticipated. His arrival lit her heart with delight, as he was different in his style. Instantly she was struck with thrill and interest, and found amusement in the depths of his mind; she never met any of his kind. She entered a realm far from… Read More A Farewell From Her to Him in the 3rd by Kahlila Clouden
I swear I’ve never been so deep, So far into where my affections sleep, With your love I’ve made it wake, My affection, so strong, sealing my loves fate. How I met her was simple, shy at first, But my life had changed, twas rebirth. Regardless, I marveled in her beauty still, My God, she… Read More “The Past Pt. 1” by Kolbe Salim
[I’m no expert, these are just opinions/ideas] What do all people have in common that often onset conflicts within relationships? Ha! We ALL have flaws – those things about ourselves that are generally frowned upon or considered “poor relationship qualities”…those “issues” we battle with that remain with us (or not?), no matter how much we… Read More Rela. Talk #1: My Flaws that need FIXING!
I was just telling a friend about how I prefer talking to strangers over my acquaintances. I really do though… To me, I always gain more out of a conversation with a complete random. Strangers don’t know me personally [obviously, they’re strangers!] so they can’t judge me. Like Kendel Hippolyte said [& I often quote]… Read More I like Strangers.
One of the topics I discussed earlier today was COMFORT, in particular being comfortable with oneself and comfortable in one’s relationships. So what does it mean to be comfortable? ~> “comfortable: affording or enjoying contentment and security; free from stress or tension.” – Websters Dictionary. Now I personally think being comfortable keeps people in the right frame of… Read More COMFORT RANT!
Do you remember that feeling of being happily alone? Before you knew love & how greatly it could effect you. That satisfied, yet yearning feeling of knowing you were complete within yourself but curious to have more, feel more, submit to something…someone else… It’s almost an empty sensation now… after love came & went &… Read More Before love.
You know when, every once in a while some random person decides to hit you up & you’re honestly NOT in the mood to speak to them… soooo you either ignore them or respond coldly, complaining about how they annoy you so much ? Well… sometimes that person just wants someone to talk to… You… Read More Talking to Strangers…